Obsessions are unfounded thoughts, fears, or worries. They happen often and cause great anxiety. Reasoning does not help control the obsessions. Common obsessions are:
- A strong fixation with dirt or germs.
- Repeated doubts (for instance, about having turned off the stove).
- A need to have things in a very specific order.
- Thoughts about violence or hurting someone.
- Spending long periods of time touching things or counting.
- Fixation with order or symmetry.
- Persistent thoughts of awful or disturbing sex acts.
- Being troubled by thoughts that are against personal religious beliefs.
You may know that the thoughts are unreasonable and not due to real-life problems. But it's not enough to make the unwanted thoughts go away.
Compulsions are repetitive, ritualized acts. They are meant to reduce anxiety caused by the obsession. Examples are:
- Repeated handwashing (often more than 100 times a day).
- Checking and rechecking to make sure that a door is locked or that the oven is turned off, for example.
- Following extremely rigid rules of order, such as putting on clothes in the same order each day or alphabetizing the spices, and getting upset if the order becomes disrupted.
Compulsive acts can become excessive, disruptive, and time-consuming. They may interfere with daily life and relationships.
People may stay away from situations where they might have to face their obsessions. Some try alcohol or drugs to calm themselves.